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Re: Sex and the Asian Man (Score: 1) by Aznxcynical on Thursday, May 20 @ 23:58:07 EDT (User Info | Send a Message) http://smx02k4@hotmail.com | Hmm, one thing I wanna ask is are you those type of girls that expects something to happen to them? And if so, do you give hints?
If that's the case, I can see why none of em approached you or show interest in you. I don't think I would've too seeing how some AF are.
As for me, I am done worshipping them (AF). I'm slowly starting to see them differently. I don't value them as much as I used to.
I was once like you. I used to limit myself only to APAs but that was pretty stupid of me.
I don't mean to bash AF but with things the way they are now, I rather stay away from AF.
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Re: Sex and the Asian Man (Score: 1) by Aznxcynical on Friday, May 21 @ 00:57:25 EDT (User Info | Send a Message) http://smx02k4@hotmail.com | I'm not bittered nor am I angry (except maybe at those that diss us)? If what you say is true then I'm sorry to hear that.
As for your relationship, I wish you luck.
I'm not gonna be like some militants guys here and bash you. Nothing really surprises me anymore coming out of the asian community.
And no, I don't get jealous nor angry when I see wm/af couples (for thoses reading).
But I do get angry when I hear stories bout the asian brothers out there who are loyal and staying true to their own but yet they're getting shit from the AF and STILL staying LOYAL and taking the heat, doing nothing about it. That pisses me off most.
As for that quote of yours
"I felt sorry for the plight of my Asian brothers"
I hope your reasons for only dating APAs those many years ago wasn't because you felt sorry for us. I wouldn't want anybody like that dating me. And if that was the case then I rather be single.
And for those of you who's gonna try and bash me. No, I don't have problems getting with asian girls or any other girls. I gotta meet their critia and they with mines, otherwise it's bye bye to them.
Going back to you
Seeing how there's plenty of AMs
(depending on where you live I guess) I don't see how you couldn't find one that was interested in you and if that's the case you probably gave off the wrong vibe. I'm not saying it's your fault or that you're doing intentionally.
I'll tell you this much, if I see an asian girl in an all white crowd, I prefer to stay away from them. She'd be the last on my list to ask out (if I do). I rather ask a nonasian girl out than her.
"In that many years, I have limited myself only to APAs, but none have expressed any interest in a relationship with me"
I find that quote of yours kinda hard to believe.
You mean out of every AM you've met or encountered, none has shown any interest in you? This almost sounded like some of the excuse I hear from some sellout AF. If's that's true, sorry to hear that but I hope you're not trying to justify your reasons for dating whitemen.
As for me, seeing the many whitephiles and self hating AF there are in the asian community, I'm extra cautious now about approaching any AF (that is if I do).
Nowadays, I prefer not to approach them.
For me, approaching other girls is easier (sad to say) than those similar to me.
As of now, I only look out for for my Asian brothers. I'm sorry I can't feel the same way about the sisters.
And yes, like you, I do get annoyed when I hear AM complaining. I wish they would have some more pride and dignity in themself. But I can understand where they're coming from. I just wish they'd stop the AF worshipping and give other women a chance. Why worship somebody that diss you? That gets to me most. |
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